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Family life as a soldier

Every year, thousands of soldiers build a career and a family with support from the British Army.

At a glance

You don't have to give up family life in the British Army. The benefits that come with your job also extend to your loved ones and are there to support your family through every stage of military life. Family benefits in the British Army include subsidised housing, flexible working, generous parental leave, childcare support, and welfare services. Whether you're married, in a long-term partnership, or have children, you'll find support at home and during deployments.

What is family life like in the British Army?

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People often ask

  • 1How often will I see friends and family?

    How often you see friends and family very much depends on your job role in the British Army and personal choice. If you have a day to day job on base, you'll have evenings and most weekends off, so you can see friends and family as much as you like. If you're married or have children, the Army provides subsidised housing so that your family can join you on your postings. There's also generous annual leave that is yours to use just as you would in any other job. A lot of jobs are now based around Garrison Camps and more than one Regiment is based there. This gives more soldiers the chance to get posted in one area for a longer period of time.

  • 2Can I be a parent in the Army?

    Yes! The British Army supports serving parents and carers by offering flexible working opportunities and excellent parental leave options. The Army Parents Network connects parents across the British Army with support, information, and advice to help you navigate military life with your family.

  • 3Can I go home at weekends?

    For new recruits, weekends and holiday periods are built into Basic Training and we encourage you to spend time with friends and family at home. Once you’ve finished your training, and joined your unit, you’re free to come and go at weekends as long as you don’t have any duties.

HOW THE ARMY SUPPORTS FAMILY LIFE

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